Imma Be On Time....
....When My Stars Align - Kid Cudi
So as of late, I've been getting the
"When are you going to.............?" questions.
When are you going to start dating?
When are you going to be in a real relationship?
When are you going to realize you're getting older?
When are you going to start having kids?
Ok, I can take the first three questions, brush them off, and roll my eyes in true Crys.C fashion.
But, When I'm going to have kids?!?
Like, really?
That question always irks me for some reason, whether it comes from my mom or a friend.
It's even more awkward when it comes from an ex.
It's like everyone has bids on my womb...
Betting on when I'm going to pop one out honestly shouldn't be a concern.
I've heard everything from 'You don't want to be 60 with a 10 year old' to 'After 35 there are too many risk'.
That's all well and dandy...
If old ass Halle Berry can have a seed, then what makes them think I can't?
I have a whole decade to reach 35. So there's no reason for me to be on a hunt for a sperm donor at this very moment.
I really don't see what's the big deal. It's not that I have anything against having kids (it's thought of child birth that scares the ish out of me), I just can't envision myself raising my kid in a fatherless home. If I'm bringing a life into this world, I want it to be with someone that I can see myself with for the rest of my life.
So until I meet that person that I want to combine genetics with, I will be just fine.
God has a plan for everyone.
If it's meant for me to be the aunt with no kids, then so be it.
But if it's in His plan for me to be a parent, then it will happen
In Due Time...
5 Comments:
i dont think relationships or love should be rushed. its one of those thangs that just happen when theyre supposed to...
Extactly...
& If you go out looking for it, you're gonna end up in some hot mess. I rather stay on cruise control.
lmao. you are not the only one getting those questions, and they used to irk me the same way. but i think ppl who care for us simply want to see fulfilment in our lives. i've taken it as admiration thus far. and although my close friends/fam can clearly see my happiness...i think they won't stop til they see a fairytale ending. i can't be mad at them. at the end of the day i think its all love. mind you, i don't ask them questions like that cause i don't like to divulge in peoples personal business. yet and still, the fact that they care about these topics with us... (house, marriage, kids, etc.) should make us feel kinda special. and just to answer everyone at once: IF YOU WANT TO FORK SOME MONEY OVER TO HELP ME GET THE BALL ROLLING, things can happen sooner than later. ;-)
This is a very funny post. I don't know of any female who hasn't had to endure this conversation with mom and/or dad.
In due time, I believe you are too smart not to know when the time is right for yourself to bring another life into this world.
Like KB, I wouldn't rush it myself.
hey girl!!!! how are you>
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